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Save on Travel with Monastery and Convent Stays

In this episode of Second Act Travels, Elizabeth explores one of her favorite ways to save money while traveling — staying at monasteries, convents, and abbeys. She explains why these unique accommodations offer not only affordability but also a rich cultural experience that allows you to connect more deeply with your destination. Perfect for travelers over 50 who value safe, clean, and well-located accommodations without paying luxury prices.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • Why monastery and convent stays are ideal for midlife travelers.
  • The kind of amenities you can expect (and not expect).
  • How these stays help you save on travel costs while offering cultural immersion.
  • Resources and tips for finding and booking monastery accommodations.
  • Safety, comfort, and location considerations for solo travelers.

Resources Mentioned:

  • Booking websites and search terms to use.
  • Examples of monastery stays in Europe and beyond.
  • Practical advice for first-timers.

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Transcript
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Welcome to Second Act Travels, the podcast for curious midlife explorers ready to

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I'm Elizabeth and each week I'll bring you tips, stories and inspiration to help you

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Well, welcome back.

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Today's topic is monastery and abbey stays.

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I thought that was very interesting and I hope

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you'll learn something from it.

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One of the areas in which I try to save money is on accommodations.

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For me,

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accommodation doesn't have to be fancy.

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I'm there to visit a destination.

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That's the way I look at it.

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And I think about my hotel room,

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the place where I'm staying as my bedroom and outside of the bedroom is the place I'm

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visiting.

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So I don't need a whole lot beyond clean,

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safe and well located.

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Other than that, I really don't care.

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I don't need a chocolate on my pillow every

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night.

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It doesn't matter if I have a really tiny room.

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It doesn't matter if I have an elevator or if I have breakfast included.

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All I want is a clean,

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safe and well located space to put my head at night.

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Well, let's talk about why monasteries and convents are even options in the first place.

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I mean, the fact is, is that monasteries and convents have lost members as fewer and fewer

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people are going into religious vocations.

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So these places need to be able to exist by earning some money because there aren't as

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many people becoming nuns or becoming monks to help bring in income for the community.

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They are open to everyone of all faiths, all backgrounds.

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For me, it's the ultimate experience in shopping local.

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Many rooms have been refurbished, they've been upgraded, they've been made en suite, so there

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is a bathroom with private bathroom within your room and they are ready to accept

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visitors.

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The other piece is that without doing these conversions, without monasteries and abbeys

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opening up to the public and trying to generate some income,

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a lot of them would close and who knows what would happen?

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Maybe a hotel chain would buy them up, maybe the building would be demolished or turned

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into condominiums or something like that.

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So for me, stay in a monastery or an abbey is absolutely about supporting a local community.

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And whenever I tell someone that I'm staying in a convent,

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they look at me a little strangely and then they say, well, what are they like?

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So what are monastery and convent accommodations like?

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First of all, do know that many places have been updated and refurbished.

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Sometimes they are working monasteries or convents, but other times the whole building

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might have just been turned over to accommodations for the public.

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These places are not hotels per se and they're usually not offering a lot of luxuries.

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So if you want chocolates on your pillow at night,

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probably a monastery or a convent is not the place for you.

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And if you need the plush chairs and the really comfy couches or something in your

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room,

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this is not the place for you.

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Generally the rooms are pretty minimally

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furnished.

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They're comfortable, but they're minimally

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furnished.

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These rooms are clean and safe and economical.

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So far below hotel rates usually.

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But now for the sake of convenience, I'm going to refer to monasteries as inclusive of

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monasteries,

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convents and abbeys.

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So I'm just going to use the one term,

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monastery stays.

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That includes convents and abbeys as well, and

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also religious colleges.

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So I'm just going to use that one term.

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So the pros, very economical room prices, definitely far lower prices than staying in a

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hotel.

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Often find within a convent in the city a garden or an enclosed area,

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maybe even a chapel.

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So they're almost like oases in the middle of a busy city.

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They can be really peaceful.

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The last one I stayed in had, you know,

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several areas where you could just sit and read a book or write in your travel journal or

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something like that.

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So those are some.

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Now, of course, there are cons to everything for monasteries.

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These rooms tend to book up,

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so book your room well in advance.

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You have to make your reservations as soon as

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you commit to a trip.

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If you're going to wait until you arrive in the town that day and reach out to the

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monastery,

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you're probably not going to get a room so several weeks in advance.

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Also, cancellation policies, I've noticed, tend to be very different at monasteries,

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which is tricky.

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Once you purchase a room and usually you pay up front,

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that money is non refundable.

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And if you have a really good excuse for why

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you can't travel,

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it seems like monasteries will often refer you back to cancellation policies in travel

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insurance.

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So you would need to apply through travel

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insurance for any reimbursement.

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The other thing is there might be a minimum stay required and you can understand why if

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they have very few staff on hand, that's fewer times they have to turn over a room.

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So there might be a minimum stay, just know that.

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But that'll be obvious to you in some of the websites we talk about.

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The last con I think is that there may be a curfew.

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Usually it's between 10pm and midnight, so for over 50 travelers maybe that's okay.

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You may be able to make accommodations, they might be able to give you a key or something

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like that if you know you're going to not be in by curfew time.

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But if you're somebody who wants to go clubbing all night,

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again, this might not be the place for you to stay.

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So just know that as well.

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There are three websites I use when I'm researching and looking for a stay.

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In a convent or a monastery, and.

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They'Re all pretty similar,

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but These are the three that I like.

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Monasteriesdays.com is the first site I use.

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It focuses mainly on Italy, but also has a few

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listings in Austria and slovenia, so nearby.

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Monasteries.com is the second website out there.

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It focuses on stays around the world, but primarily in Europe.

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I've even seen listings for Egypt and Australia.

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This site is interesting in that it also includes some tips for staying in a monastery.

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Nothing out of the ordinary,

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all what you would expect, but just just sweet to have that.

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And the third site I use is Good Night and God Bless.

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All these sites work very similarly in that you're generally not interfacing directly with

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the property.

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If you see a property that you want to stay

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in, you actually have to fill out an online form and then submit it.

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And then the people who run the.

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Platform reach out to the property to.

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Find out if there's space or not.

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For you and then they get back to you.

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So in one case monasterystays.com, you actually can put a second choice down.

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They all work very similarly,

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but play around with them, see which ones you like.

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But those are the three that I use and if you know of any others, please send them along to

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me overseas.

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And over 50 mail.com I'll be sure to update my show notes.

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Now if any of this has sounded appealing to you and none of it has put you

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off or frightened you off,

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just remember these few things.

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Here's like the least you need to know about

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staying in monasteries.

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First of all,

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be super careful about their cancellation policy.

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Again, read the fine print and make sure that if you commit to something, you're pretty much

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going to go.

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I always double check the reviews on websites and actually this goes for any accommodation I

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stay in.

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I always want to get another good review to

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back up what I'm reading, so I double check the reviews on my sites.

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Now you can often do this with TripAdvisor.com,

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you can cross check through the other monastery sites.

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So maybe you'd book through goodnightandgodbless.com but you might want to

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also read the reviews of that property on monasteries.com and vice versa.

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Even booking.com might have a listing for you to look at.

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So just double check everything.

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Make sure that the description is exactly what

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you're looking for and so that you're not going to be surprised.

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Again, book well in advance.

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You're not going to find openings on a whim.

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As soon as you really commit to a trip even a month or two out,

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get on and book if this interests you.

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Also double check the location.

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Now is it in an area near things you want to see or is it close to a public transport link?

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Always do a little bit of background research about the neighborhood and the general area.

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And again, this is a general recommendation for anyone staying anywhere.

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I mean you always want to make sure that your hotel is in a safe neighborhood,

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so just double check the location.

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I'm going to put all the links in the show notes so not to worry about that.

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That's it for monastery stays.

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I Hope that the 10 minutes was worthwhile for

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you and I hope this gives you an option for possibly saving money and having a unique

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experience really is what it's about.

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Thanks.

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Look forward to seeing you soon.

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So thanks so much for checking.

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Second act travels out and I'll see you back

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here soon.

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I’m Elizabeth, a fellow midlife traveler. We’re the in-betweeners; we may not identify as young and carefree, but we’re not quite senior citizens either. We’ve reached a stage in life where our careers are (mostly) established, our joints are (mostly) functioning well, and a newfound sense of adventure has emerged now that child-rearing and career-building are (mostly) behind us.
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